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Why I don't post photos of my kids online

There is a lot of controversy today with new advice suggesting we should ask our toddlers permission before posting photos online. While I think that is all kinds of ridiculous and the decision belongs to parents and no one else I do get asked often why I don’t share images of Daisy and now also Lucas on social media.  I was an early adopter of social media and managed accounts way before it became a job title. I’ve seen the good, the bad and downright ugly. Something that can form amazing communities can also wreck people’s lives in more ways then one. Before I had the kids Steve and I discussed what our decision would be in terms of social media. At first he didn’t mind either way but as time has gone on he is totally on board with maintaining their privacy. One question I’ve been asked was, ‘Do you not take photos of your kids? Of course I do. The photos I do post are usually just the bloopers from the 255 I’ve taken of their faces. My iCloud has about 10 000 photos a
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Why we prioritised lifestyle when choosing a house

When we started looking at available houses last year, our requirements were not diva like. Enough rooms to have a guest room/study, garage for both cars and ABSOLUTELY no stairs. There were a few places that fitted the bill house wise but the locations were a bit isolating considering I have two babies and know very few people. Also, hubby would have a minimum 40 minute drive for work. So here we are in a house close to shops, parks, family and Steve’s work. We’ve stored some furniture, the kids rooms are doubling as guest rooms and I’ve given up a gym membership for a staircase. I am actually enjoying the downsize, less to look after and I’m learning to deal with the stairs. During the day, we only go up for Daisy’s nap, otherwise I have everything from changes of clothes for all three of us to extra phone chargers all downstairs. We have safety gates in all the places and a cute cupboard under the stairs for all the Harry Potter fans. The concessions we’ve made house wise are made

Why do we downplay the struggles of motherhood?

This started as one of those ‘remember Instagram is only the highlight reel’ posts. I am standing in the kitchen with one baby strapped to me because that’s the only place he won’t cry and the toddler is sitting in the high chair demanding cheese and throwing the food I’d prepared her on the floor. She also informs me there is ‘mess’. The morning started at 5am. Little man was ready for the day. When he settled at 8am, Daisy was ready for action. Not to worry he lasted about 8 minutes before he needed tending to again. So we set about our day. There were tears and multiple dirty nappies but there were plenty of laughs and a contented run in the backyard. That’s what my post was going to be about, how much I’m enjoying the new backyard which although small gives Daisy a place to play.  Usually I throw my insta posts out into the world with a one sentence caption but I think sometimes for the Mum on the other side of the screen, no matter how large our following is, there is a res

Hunter Valley Gardens Christmas Light Spectacular 2019

Every year, Hunter Valley Gardens runs its Christmas Light Spectacular. I've now been twice and it is definitely one to add to your to do list. The event runs from early November all the way up to the end of January. As I had just had Lucas we waited until after Christmas when the crowds were a little smaller but it was just as good. There are heaps of food options and a bunch of rides as well. The pictures really don't do it justice!

Life Update - Hello 2020

A new year, a new bub and a new home. To say life has been busy is an understatement. We welcomed baby number two late November (I’ll post Lucas’s birth story soon) and from then on it was a whirlwind of newborn life, Christmas shopping and preparing for the move. We’ve also rented out on house in Newcastle so we had all the jobs associated with that as well. Daisy enjoyed and understood Christmas way more than expected and Lucas fortunately is thriving in a somewhat chaotic environment. The house is Sydney is nice but smaller so we’ve been busy trying to make everything fit and get some routine in place. Steve likes the new posting and the quick drive to work. As for me, my uniform consists of a mum bun and tights most days and I do the silly things like putting clothes in the washing machine but not turning it on. I have study that needs to be finished, events on the calendar and a plan to reclaim my health this year. I hope to grow the blog as well as producing more social me

Top 10 Christmas Rom Com Movies

It’s that time of year again where we watch sappy romantic comedies in our pyjamas while eating our body weight in holiday treats. No? Just me... anyway here’s a list of Christmas movies sure to give you all the feels. The Holiday While You Were Sleeping The Family Stone Surviving Christmas Love Actually The Family Man Just Friends A Mom for Christmas Why Him? Ghosts of Girlfriends Past What are your must watch Christmas movies? 

My favourite career and business books

There was a time long ago where I'd read at least three books a week. These days it usually takes a good month to get through that many but it is something I love and prioritize - even if it's just a chapter a day. I read everything from crime and mystery to romance and chick lit, it's all on my book shelf but my number one genre(s) of choice is biography and business. I link them because most good business books are intrinsically centred around the story of the founder(s) and have more drama that an episode of The Bachelor. If I really was to narrow down my books of choice even further it would be business books by women. These are the ones I devour and stay up way too late for someone whose one year will be up no later than 6am demanding sustenance and attention. I've put together a list of some of the best and would love to hear your recommendations on any I've missed. #GIRLCODE: The Secret to Success in a digital world Michaela Launerts This one reads like